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Knowing God's Will
Knowing God's Will
Finding Guidance for Personal Decisions
(Expanded Edition)
Should I Get Married?
Should I Get Married?
Revised/Updated Edition
Overcoming Shyness
Overcoming Shyness
 Conquering Your
Social Fears
The Yes Anxiety
The Yes Anxiety
 Taming the Fear
    of Commitment
    
The Optimism Factor
The Optimism Factor
 Outrageous Faith
 Against the Odds
One of a Kind
 A Biblical View of
Self-Acceptance     
Knowing God's Will
 Biblical Principles of
Guidance
The original edition
Translations and
British Editions
Over 100 different Nehemiah Notes featured on this site (articles by
Blaine Smith)!

Nehemiah Notes, September 1, 2010
Regretting the Choice
That Seemed So Right
When Is a Decision Truly a Bad One?
   
When Chandra was 39, she left a lucrative job in banking to pursue a counseling career. Long wanting to make this change, she chose to move forward when a psychologist friend promised her a position with his counseling firm once she completed her masters.
         Chandra’s friend did indeed hire her when she graduated. But a short time later, he left the practice, and the center foundered. Chandra was unable to find work with another agency.
         When Chandra shared her experience with me, she said she was certain she had  missed God’s will, and spoke repeatedly of having made a “bad decision” . . .
   
Sometimes a decision that we think was the mistake of our life was more enlightened than we realize. Blaine explains in this article, and offers counsel for breaking the spell of regret over past decisions.
   

Nehemiah Notes, August 15, 2010
Welcome Guidance From
Unwelcome Circumstances

Reaping the Benefits of

Inspirational Dissatisfaction
   
In the 1970s I served on the staff of a Presbyterian church in St. Louis for several years. The experience was a milestone for me. The senior pastor and the congregation were highly supportive, and I grew in many important ways.
         Yet I was often frustrated by the nature of pastoral work itself. Pastors are expected to be generalists--wearing many hats. I found myself wanting to concentrate more on certain areas of ministry that reflected my gifts, and was often discouraged at how little time I had for these activities . . .
   
Our experiences of frustration can provide invaluable insight into God's will for our life. Blaine examines this positive role of discontentment in this article.
   

Nehemiah Notes, August 1, 2010
When Is a Door Truly Closed?
Sometimes We're Too Quick
To Think God Is Saying No
   
I’ll never forget a story that made the national news a few years ago. CNN announced, as a headline item, that a man had passed his bar exam. Of course, passing the bar doesn’t normally attract the attention of the national media. Yet this man’s case was unusual, for he had failed the test forty-seven previous times. Now, at age sixty, this tenacious soul had finally passed on his forty-eighth try . . .
   
When does perseverance indicate faith, and when stubbornness? Blaine explores this often confusing question in this article.
   

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The Yes Anxiety
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Over 100 Nehemiah Notes archived-- articles by Blaine Smith--including:
Waiting on God's Timing
Seizing the Moment
Growing Wise Emotionally
Listening to God: Why It Helps to Be Moving
When We Get Our Wires Crossed
When Waiting Is
 Worth It
When Someone Lets
You Down
Don't Look Back
Facing Your Fears of Success
Your Life's Bigger Picture
The Triumph of Simple Persistence
Trust Your Judgment
When Is a Door Truly Closed?
Reshaping Assumptions That Shape Our Life
If God Loves Everyone, Where Does That Leave me?
Looking Inward and Looking Outward
Handling Life's Interruptions
The Challenge of Optimism
Should I Wait in Faith--Or Step Out in Faith?
The Eureka Factor
Keeping Your Life in Motion
The Motive Trap
Turning the Page
Learning to Fail Successfully
Golden Opportunities and God's Will
Confronting the Fear of Change
Waking to Your Hidden Potential
Paranoia Can Annoy Ya
Regretting the Choice That Seemed So Right
Christians and Self-Talk
My Desires and
God's Will
Confronting Your Social Fears
Dare to Dream
Keep on Dreaming
Seeing Your Life Dynamically
Obedience to Christ--What Does It Mean?
Hearing God in a Time of Crisis
Is God a Matchmaker?
Embracing Your Signature Style
The Greatness of Small Beginnings
No Fatal Errors
When God Does the Unexpected
Serving Christ for (the Highest) Benefits
Bailing Us Out
The Triumph of Hope
The Positive Side of Mixed Emotions
Fresh Starts
Fooled by Fleecing
The Shortest Cop on the Force
Welcome Guidance from Unwelcome Interruptions
The Joy of Late Blooming
Bad Days -- What Do They Mean?
The Problem of Unanswered Prayer
Past Guidance and Present Decisions
Aiming Straight,
Aiming High
Faith and Assertiveness
Helping Others by Asking for Help
When Trying Again
Makes the Difference
You're a Gift to Others--But Not a Savior
Grasping the Bigger
Picture
Revising the Map
Guidance and
Intuition
Faith and Individuality
Pearls of Too Great a Price
Tradeoffs Worth
Making
Prayer and Your Personal Potential
Pacing Yourself
Many, many more!
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