nineteen years
of Internet

Over 100 
Nehemiah Notes
posted on
this site

  The official website for Blaine Smith’s ministry and Nehemiah Notes 

Books by
Blaine Smith

With Sample Chapters
Turning the Page
Finding the Courage
for Major Life Change
and the Wisdom
to Reinvent Yourself

Available in paperback and
Beyond Stage Fright and into the Spotlight
Overcoming Performance Anxiety and the Fear of Public Speaking -- and Winning the Hearts of Your Audience
Available in paperback,
Kindle and Nook
Should I Wait in Faith or Step Out in Faith?
Balancing Patience and Initiative in the Christian Life
Available in paperback, Kindle and Nook
Emotional Intelligence for the Christian
How It Radically Affects Your Happiness, Health, Success and Effectiveness for Christ
How to Achieve It Where It Counts Most
in paperback,
Kindle and Nook
Reach Beyond
Your Grasp

Embracing Dreams That Reflect God's Best for You -- And Achieving Them
in paperback,
Kindle and Nook
Marry a Friend
Finding Someone to Marry Who Is Truly Right for You
in paperback,
Kindle and Nook
Goal Setting for the Christian
Harnessing the Stunning Benefits of Focus and Persistence to Realize Your Potential for Christ -- and Your God-Given Dreams
Available in paperback, Kindle and Nook
The Yes Anxiety
Taming the Fear
of Commitment in Relationships, Career, Spiritual Life and Daily Decisions
in paperback,
Kindle and Nook
Overcoming Shyness
 Conquering Your
Social Fears
in paperback,
Kindle and Nook
Faith and Optimism: Positive Expectation in the Christian Life (formerly The Optimism Factor)
in paperback,
Kindle and Nook   

One of a Kind
A Biblical view of Self-Acceptance
in paperback,
Kindle and Nook

Knowing God's Will
Knowing God's Will
Finding Guidance for Personal Decisions
(Expanded Edition)
Available in
paperback and
Should I Get Married?
Should I Get Married?
Revised/Updated Edition
in paperback
Knowing God's Will
 Biblical Principles of
The original
1979 edition
Translations and
British Editions

Welcome to the Nehemiah Ministries Website . . .

And thank you for visiting! I began this site in 1997, as my effort to bring encouragement and counsel to Christians online -- especially regarding relationships and realizing their personal potential. I've posted a Nehemiah Notes article twice each month since then, and all are archived here. While Ive reissued some, over 100 individual articles are available. Youll also find information on all my books, with sample chapters, and links to online sellers where they are available. And theres also a history of this ministry, and I've posted some recent photos (updated April 2015 and afterward), in case you're interested. I hope an article or book featured on this site will provide the help you need, and Gods best to you as you browse!  - Blaine Smith



 * * * New Book by Blaine Smith * * *

Turning the Page
  Finding the Courage for
Major Life Change and the
Wisdom to Reinvent Yourself

I’ve just published this new book (April  2015). And it’s available through amazon.com in paperback and Kindle, can be ordered through bookstores, and is available through many international Amazons as well. As the title implies, this is a book about making new beginnings, about the joy of redefining your life. God on occasion prompts us each to take a new direction with our life. But how do we know when that time is here? And how do we get beyond the various fears and inhibitions that can keep us stuck in place, or keep us from recognizing that change we ought to make in the first place?

In Turning the Page I look at how to overcome these hurdles, and I do my best to fire your passion for taking on new adventures. Please see the book’s Amazon page for a fuller description, and on the Kindle page you can preview the first chapter and more, plus the table of contents (the paperback page preview offers snapshots through the book). I do hope you’ll find this book a helpful resource for your Christian walk!


Nehemiah Notes, November 1, 2016

The Quest for Certainty
How Much Guidance Should We Expect from God?

R ita was in a dead-end relationship and very confused about God’s will. She phoned me one evening, anxious for my advice.
         She had been through two previous dating relationships where her hopes had been seriously disappointed, she explained. Finally, she had taken a step to keep the pattern from repeating. She told the Lord that she wouldn’t date another man unless her mom was confident he was the one she should marry, and she prayed that her mom’s approval would indicate she had found God’s choice . . .
In a major decision, we long for God to guide us dramatically and give us perfect certainty of his will. I look at why this expectation is usually unrealistic in this article, and at what sort of guidance we reasonably can expect.

Nehemiah Notes, October 15, 2016

Regretting the Choice That Seemed So Right
When Is a Decision Truly a Bad One?


When Chandra was 39, she left a lucrative job in banking to pursue a counseling career. Long wanting to make this change, she chose to move forward when a psychologist friend promised her a position with his counseling firm once she completed her masters.
         Chandra’s friend did indeed hire her when she graduated. But a short time later, he left the practice, and the center foundered. Chandra was unable to find work with another agency.
         When Chandra shared her experience with me, she said she was certain she had  missed God’s will, and spoke repeatedly of having made a “bad decision” . . .

Sometimes a decision that we think was the mistake of our life was more enlightened than we realize. I explain in this article, and offer counsel for breaking the spell of regret over past choices.

Nehemiah Notes, October 1, 2016

Welcome Guidance from Unwelcome Circumstances
Reaping the Benefits of Inspirational Dissatisfaction

In the 1970s I served on the staff of a Presbyterian church in St. Louis for several years. The experience was a milestone for me. The senior pastor and the congregation were highly supportive, and I grew in many important ways.
         Yet I was often frustrated by the nature of pastoral work itself. Pastors are expected to be generalists--wearing many hats. I found myself wanting to concentrate more on certain areas of ministry that reflected my gifts, and was often discouraged at how little time I had for these activities . . .
Our frustration can provide invaluable insight into God's will for our life. I examine this positive role of discontentment in this article.

What you'll find
on this site . . .
Over 100 Nehemiah Notes archived-- articles by Blaine Smith--including:
Waiting on God's Timing
Seizing the Moment
Confronting Your Social Fears
Growing Wise Emotionally
Listening to God: Why It Helps to Be Moving
When We Get Our Wires Crossed
When Waiting Is
 Worth It
When Someone Lets
You Down
Don't Look Back
Facing Your Fears of Success
Your Life's Bigger Picture
The Triumph of Simple Persistence
Trust Your Judgment
When Is a Door Truly Closed?
Reshaping Assumptions That Shape Our Life
If God Loves Everyone, Where Does That Leave me?
Looking Inward and Looking Outward
Handling Life's Interruptions
The Challenge of Optimism
Should I Wait in Faith--Or Step Out in Faith?
The Eureka Factor
Keeping Your Life in Motion
The Motive Trap
Turning the Page
Learning to Fail Successfully
Golden Opportunities and God's Will
Confronting the Fear of Change
Waking to Your Hidden Potential
Paranoia Can
Annoy Ya
Regretting the Choice That Seemed So Right
Christians and Self-Talk
My Desires and
God's Will
Dare to Dream
Keep on Dreaming
Seeing Your Life Dynamically
Obedience to Christ--What Does It Mean?
Hearing God in a Time of Crisis
Is God a Matchmaker?
Embracing Your Signature Style
The Greatness of Small Beginnings
No Fatal Errors
When God Does the Unexpected
Serving Christ for (the Highest) Benefits
Bailing Us Out
The Triumph of Hope
The Positive Side of Mixed Emotions
Fresh Starts
Fooled by Fleecing
The Shortest Cop on the Force
Welcome Guidance from Unwelcome Interruptions
The Joy of Late Blooming
Bad Days -- What Do They Mean?
The Problem of Unanswered Prayer
Past Guidance and Present Decisions
Aiming Straight,
Aiming High
Faith and Assertiveness
Helping Others by Asking for Help
When Trying Again
Makes the Difference
You're a Gift to Others--But Not a Savior
Grasping the Bigger
Revising the Map
Guidance and
Faith and Individuality
Pearls of Too Great a Price
Tradeoffs Worth
Prayer and Your Personal Potential
Pacing Yourself
Many, many more!
Copyright 1997-2016 M. Blaine Smith
Damascus, Maryland
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